Hatred mustn't b obvious

Do people puposely go out of their way to be disliked? Like Hi-I know you hate me so I will just keep swarmig & swarming! Is it because they think they can make u like them?Like maybe you won't have a choice? Like they'll win u over in time.Like if you're choking on their prescence it's a compliment to them. maybe they can't accept that they are not liked by you? Is it that the rudeness displayed is ignored? The noise of our teethe grinding off every word we speak must not be loud enough to be heard? The funny thing is peole give u the reasons why you don't like them. Yet- they will harp on not knowing what they've done. They will keep invading your space and act like your hatred isn't obvious!wow.