Jomaluza Daze

Whatever!

where r good friends?!.

Why is it so hard to find a good friend? A trustworthy person who cares and is respectful etc..I can't believe that in most cases friendship is a cover for someone who wants to use u 4 something. People are so selfish & in2 theirselves that it is impossible to find someone who'll actully take the time to have a friendship. No matter how good I am to someone the favor is never returned.It is sad to me. I spend my time helping, listening, offering advice and anything else a good person would do for some1 and I can find no one who'll do the same. Old friends pop in to talk about themselves. I was married young so none of my friends have kids the same age. It's hard to be friends with no children because it's a different lifestyle & different hours that r kept. It's hard 2b friends w/ people with kids because of family schedules & work. Where do people find friends? I guess u r lucky ifu have any. atleast my soulmate & absolute best friend is so awesome all in all I really only need him!  http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

Anthony family

I have to say I have been watching this missing girl Caylee's case in Fla. and I don't know these people but I am sad for Caylee. The search is about her and I wonder if all this publicity is forgetting this. I am not a lawyer but I believe that the evidence against the mom is stacking. If Caylee was out there and Casey could get to her I'm sure she would have been home by now.( I am sure if only to get the reporters to go home.) I think that the grandmother is starting to look mean & full of hate. She has smelled her granddaughters deah quite possibly and I believe the shock of that has sent her to denial land. the Grandfather is a retired cop. I feel bad for him for all of the damage to his reputation.I think Casey dancing and all that was one of two thing. Covering her guilt. Or celebrating her last days of freedom. Now as a parent I can sympathize with the fact that the Anthonys don't want to believe their daughter killed their Granddaugher but sometimes sheltering and helpin allows them to get worse with their behavior & problems. They can de to help their child but have an obligation to Caylee and getting justice for her. I feel for Caylee's uncle. He sure searches! Cindy needs a lawyer of her own and everyone needs councelling. No matter  what you say about the police they are doing their job! Someone needs to crack. Let's face it-if it was accidental death then 911 would have been called unless she was on illegal drugs, maybe abusive to prescribed meds, or in the process of doing something else illegal! If it wasn't Cyalee's dead boy in the car who else's would it be? Also, I hope any possible biological dad's were spoken to. It's possible they wanted their daughter.This is a situation I am glad not to be in. Best of luck to Caylee.

Our country cares-NOT about organic.

Ya know, it amazes me. Everything I read about food these days is that it should be organic. O.k. great. Well how about the cost of this. Organic food costs much more than some of the staples families live off of because they can't afford organic. How can the crap that's no good cost less? Doesn't that prove that our country doesn't care about us? We have poor starving people in our country. Kids who need parents and homes. We fight wars we spend zillions and the army wives are feeding crap to the children fighting for our country because the cost of food. Why is this food thats no good for us make it stores everywhere. Why is it not illegal? Maybe everything not grown in the ground should be illegal. Pot is! It is grown in the earth and known to be helpful but it's illegal. Cigarettes kill every one  and they are legal. More proof- our country cares not! I hear about health care in all the election talk I don't hear that anyone is trying to lower the cost of the food that is good for us. How can we truely be healthy with out that? Wouldn't it be sad for drug companies to go under because America got healthy? Organic helps with that probably why we don't hear about it! I respect the farmers and the land and believe it's key to good health. Maybe i everyone  else did we'd all be growing our needs and we'd all be healthier & happier! Why worry about social security and 401 k when we can't eat right to live long enough for it to be an issue!

Being female is torture!

No kidding when people refer to periods as the curse! It sure is. It's inhumane once your done having childen to even have to diaper yourself! Once the need not to bleed-childbith occurs-why can't it just go away? Why not only is 9 months of pregnancy happening in the woman's body but so is a lifetime of bloat.pain.blood.bit*hinesscramps sleeplessness. crying.binging.and headache!Wow, how lucky for females everywhere.!!!i won't get into the actuall pushing & stuff.I actually refered to it as my'friend' What the hell was I thinking? Admitting your on the rag didn't sound the best way to say it.Wearing  crammer jammer, that sounds lady like. Well I guess the curse is more like it! Being female sucks.Menopause to look forward to. Lucky for females everywhere!

Toby the turtle!

So, after kicin' around names we decided to name the turtle Toby. I'm tellin ya- I'm in love. I can just stare at my turtle. He is facinating. He has a beautiful red rim around his shell. His legs have streaks of red and his head is a beautiful green. He goes on daily walks. It's amazing how fast he really is. He'll stop to rest and then keep on hiking. He has grown allready. His shell is getting bigger & heavier. Even his little legs & arms are chunckin! He has the cutest claws and they ticke as he touches you.He will flip over and use his neck to flip back. He loves his turtle log food. It's funny to watch him eat. I love to pick him up & stare him down. He gives it right back. I always knew a turtle would be fun but I didn't expect my turle to make me so happy. I love Toby the tortius! (however it's spelled!).My boys are the best!

Medicine's side effects

Does any one watch the side effects on the medicines that are being pushed and advertized and thrown their way? Like if you have something wrong with you another four things will be wrong with you once the medicine is added to your daily routine! I'd rather be bald than be bald, be puking, have diahreahha, and be dizzy beacuse of side effects. I'd rather sneeze a little than have the sneezes, the shakes, and sleep half my life away beacause of added side effect sleepiness! Or what about getting your leg to stop shaking but hav insomnia, sick stomach, and dry mouth.Just keep in mind en=verytime you take something you take it's side effects too!http://jomaluza.blogspot.com/

Hatred mustn't b obvious

Do people puposely go out of their way to be disliked? Like Hi-I know you hate me so I will just keep swarmig & swarming! Is it because they think they can make u like them?Like maybe you won't have a choice? Like they'll win u over in time.Like if you're choking on their prescence it's a compliment to them. maybe they can't accept that they are not liked by you? Is it that the rudeness displayed is ignored? The noise of our teethe grinding off every word we speak must not be loud enough to be heard? The funny thing is peole give u the reasons why you don't like them. Yet- they will harp on not knowing what they've done. They will keep invading your space and act like your hatred isn't obvious!wow.

The Claw Machine

I've been checkin out the claw stuffed animal machines at all these different places! I have learned a few things. Like some machines are sure winners. It might take a buck or so but you'll leave with an animal. Most of the animals are not big. If they are big  they are a dollar a pop! Some machines are clear losers. Their claw is not strong enough to actually grab things. You'll notice your quarters depleating fast in those machines. In most cases the claw machines that have fake jewelry is usually not a winner. In fact, I have never won on one & I've played many dollars!! In most cases you can see that you could have bought 12 animals for the price of trying to win over & over but when you win it's so exciting. You'll start noticing the machines everywhere & start playing. Oh & warning you will have many stuffed animals heading your way!Sometimes you will appear to win & the claw drops your animal at the last second. Sometimes you'll swear you're getting one & it'll grab one thats next to it. Some have great prizes. Football &stuff like that.People around you get happy to see winners! Total strangrs will cheer you on. It's a great pass of time & quarters! I'm glad I noticed the claw machine.

Why Lie?

Are you kidding me? I am seeing that alot of married people lie to their spouces about important stuff. Why lie? If you're unhappy or you can't be open with your spouce or you can't get along or you want someone else, say it. Leave. But why lie? In some cases why take vows in the first place when you know you're gonna be living a lie? How can you live with anotherr person, one you cared enough to marry and know you are a liar? The spouce on the other side of the lie always gets hurt worse. Not only because an event happened but then their trusted partner lies on top of it. I've seen money lies, I've seen girlfriend lies, I've seen addiction lies, but most of all i just see a liar-making excuses! Why lie?

Casey Anthony Case

Oh. The missing little girl Callie Anthony is making me sick. This poor little gir. I mean the media is out of control on this. Instead of some useful digging in to other things they are camped out uninvited in the grandparents driveway! Put your resources on Callie & let those poor grandparents breath. Pressure outside the jail so maybe casey who seems to know something might feel forced to talk. It's clea everyday that passes is not a good sign for Caley. It's clear Casey read the register from the apartment complex and picked a name off it. She used the studio place she worked at as a current address of employment. It looked to me like she was working in those photos taken at the night club!! If the grandmother defends her daughter what would we expect her to do? Especially if trying to get the bottom of things. Do you think the shock of raising a possible murderer would be easy to swallow? I think the uncle loves his niece and wants to help any way. I am glad the grandfather blew up at the media. It's better than holding things in & getting a heart attack. I was sad callies birthday yesterday & I'll be sad everyday until she is found. I hope she is alive and got to turn 3 yesterday.

Right back to them!

Everyone knows a person like this. They have a conversation with you BUT only to talk about themselves! Everything you say is turned into one of their stories about themselves. If you make something they have allready made it before-back to them. If you were sick they were too only they had it worse poor them. If you get something new they jump in with their latest purchase. Back to them. If their was a death in the family- back to them & heir death and how they handled things. If you get a promotion they all ready make more & got a promotion-back to them. Finally you begin to relize that it' always going to be about them. Back to them. Talking to a wall is better at least a wall can't talk about themself!! http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

pop in visitors

I hate the pop in! Why do people feel like showing up at a home they don't own whenever they want. ? It's rude. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't want to catch anyone doing anything I don't want to know about. Some people live for it. I picture these people as big insects wanting to be a fly on my wall. I love it when they say they called first. maybe you were ignored? If I don't feel like talking to you on the phone I definately don't want you to visit me at my home especially unannounced. If people are offended -sorry- the good news is I wouldn't pull a pop in on you either! There are boundaries as far as I am concerned. Pop in visitors make me want to 'pop' them!!!!!!!!  http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

I Finally Got a TURTLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG! I have wanted a turtle forever. I was suprised when my husband and kids came home with one for me!!He's cute. He has striking colors and a cool red around the rim of his shell. I named him Toby. He likes when I pick him up & he can d=stare at my face. I have a lot of turtle facts to look up. If any one has any advise??!!.. Toby is faster than I thought. He likes to blend in his surrounding. I give him daily walks and he loves the grass. His nails are long and sharp but they don't hurt. We bought him special food and he has his own homemade pond. I can't wait to find out everything about him.

Funny birth control!

I've been seeing this show where teen couples get to live in a place of their 'own' and they get to live like parents. Every once in a while the age of the children change. They have had babies and toddlers and mental breakdowns! You would think birth control was on their minds the entire time. It's great for teens to see what it really is like to be a parent. It's good for anyone who wants to be a parent. They should make a mandatory class for parents to be. One of the teens admitted they would rather be single the rest of their life. I was impressed by a few of the couples and horrified of the possibility of some of them being parents! They had to decide who would work and who would be the stay home parent. That brought up a ton of issues on it's own. If my kids wanted to do something like this study I would encourage them!http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

who doesn't report their kid missing??????????????

OMG! I can't believe what I am hearing. Who doesn't report their kid missing for a 5 week span? Not to mention it took a Grand parent to call police. Oh& it gets better. The mom lies to police and it ends up she lied about several things. The maternal grandmother - the mother of the mother- of this child telephones the police after her daughter can't produce her granddaughter! I almost might have advised the grandmother to beat the info out of the mother. Good thing I don't know these people! Unless she killed her own daughter or gave her to a sicko or sold her or has a huge habit or knows who killed or hurt or sold her whatever this mother is as guilty as anyone else. I hope the little girl is found healthy and happy but if she is not I hope the mother fries! http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/ I have been keeping up on this case and I suspect that this girl was playing a power trip over her parents and things got out of control! I think this mom was jealous of her parents attention towards Cayle. Maybe there is a drug problem. I think her family knows she is in trouble and they are playing her game because of severe denial or hope of Caylee. Some type of illegal thype of activity had to take place for this mom to keep mum. As dogs spotted on human remains in 2 spots and no one has seen Caylee I don't hink it looks good. I would love to be proved wrong and hope little Caylee is healthy & happy. I find this case upsetting!

annanicolesmith-it's sad

I know it's been a while and nobodys talking about Anna Nicole Smith like they were when the custody battle was going on but it still makes me sad. Say what you want about her. My thing is that I can't imagine giving birth to a new babv and losing my grown child at the same time. giving birth is traumatic enough. C-sections are no joke. Then to wake and find a dead son. I believe they had to sedate her she was still trying cpr on the ground.( Ouch after a section). It's sad for her daughter. Not only does she lose her mom & brother- she will learn of the custody battle. There had to be a damn good reason for her to move and not want Birkhead around. I even feel for Howard. Again, say what you'd like. He is in a whole lot of footage with her. Thay had something and she chose him to be daddy! It's sad. I know alot of people believe in what goes around comes around(Marshal?) but still- it's SAD.http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

lap dog callers!Please!

I love calling someplace early in the a.m. to get things done and getting the speal about the other party having to call you back. They say they'll call a.s.a.p. but hours later no call back. After a while you figure some of these people out. They expect you to be waiting with the phone half way to your ear so when they return your call your right there to be reached. After all these are IMPORTANT people you're waiting on! Well, sorry. If you're too busy with your call I reserve the right to be busy when you call back. I too am IMPORTANT! I'm not a lap dog. I don't wait on phone calls and no one should wait on a phone call from me!!!!!!!!!!! I call if & when it suits me...http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

buying Crap

buying crappy things makes me mad! when i shop at the $1.00 store I expect crap. I buy crappy things there. If I buy from a reputable company and they sell me the same crap the $1.00 store sells me but for alot more I am pissed. Pretty much all the stuff stamped China is crap. Maybe catalogs should tell you if the crap they are trying to sell you comes from China. Then consumers can decide if they want crap or not. Why is the US not trying to make the stuff they screw up for less and selling us stuff that's not CRAP! OH CRAP!!http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/

QUEEN BRIDEZILLA!!!!!!

so I was watching Bridezillas and it cleared up alot! This couple who was divorced once was getting remarried to eachother. She was the queen bridezilla in my mind! She made fun of him infront of other people. She was disrespectful to his clients and even hung up his phone on them. She made fun of contractors and yelled at them to the point they walked out! She agreed to sign a pre nup because she got so much out of the first divorce from him! But there was a condition-the honeymoon was on him. So, at the lawyers meeting (even the lawyer said he was nuts to do it again), she was busy throwing a fit about things and demanding that they get to the travel agency to book their honeymoon she signed and ordered him out. At the travel agency the agent said it would cost  a lot for where she wanted to go so she threw a fit told him to fix everything her way or don't come to the car. He comes out & she's propped up on the stairs crying about she's embarased because she told all her friends they were going to honeymoon in this one place and they doubted it, and she signed the prenup for the honeymoon even though she didn't agree, blahh.blahh, and he gets suckered ang goes to fix everything, kisses her, tells her not to cry & goes to pay for hte honeymoon. SHE looks at the camera and SMILES cause she knows he's a sucker. This is what clears it all up- he says it's better than being alone!!!!!!
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Ring Girls

I like to watch the ring girls at sporting events and wonder where they came from? What is the purpose of these girls.? O.k. really I know they hold the cards but I doubt that's what people are looking at! I admit theses girls have nice 'assetts' but why not put them in evening gowns that make the guys and girls drool? I love the idea of these fighters and beautiful fashion mixed. I Iwonder why some of the wrestler women come out in rediculous stuff too. In early wrestling 'Miss Elizabeth' came out in beautiful dresses and jewlery. Now a days everything turns trashy not classy! I'm also at http://jomaluza-whateversonmymind.blogspot.com/
jomaluza
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ROCHESTER, NY
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